Ever wonder if that nice guy is flirting with you? There are a few proven ways that can tell you if he is interested in you. While it’s difficult to read body language at times, it’s possible if you know where to start. Here are 10 ways that men unconsciously and even consciously let you know that they like you. Take a look, see what you see and maybe you will find your love right now.
1. Lovely smile
A lovely smile is actually a good sign and, when it comes to flirting, it’s one of the surest signs he is interested in you. If you notice that he is smiling at you, there’s a good chance he likes you and wants to approach you. Maybe he is shy, so why not show him your confidence and courage by approaching him first? Of course, if you like him. After all, there is nothing to be ashamed of if you approach a man first. Just smile back, initiate a conversation with him and don’t try to play hard to get. Playing hard to get is a great boost, but often it’s a big turn off for guys.
4 Ways to Successfully Play Hard-to-Get
Playing hard-to-get takes a bit of practice. You might think you’re playing hard-to-get when you’re really playing impossible-to-get. Here are a few useful tips on how to play hard-to-get the right way.
1. Don’t reply to texts right away
Replying to texts the a minute after they come screams that you have no life. Even if you do have a life and just happened to see his text come in, replying right away will give him the impression that you don’t. Most men don’t reply to texts right away either, so replying in such quick time doesn’t make any difference to his response. Taking a while to reply implies that you have other things to do and aren’t always there when he’s ready to talk.
2. Don’t accept last minute dates
If a guy asks you out for the next day, always be busy. You don’t want to appear that you have no other plans. Never, ever cancel plans that you already have if he asks you out for a day that you already have something to do. If he really likes you, he’ll ask you out again, hopefully with more advanced notice.
3. Be confident
Don’t look to a guy to give you confidence. If you’re constantly putting yourself down and expecting a guy to reassure you of how awesome you are, he’s probably going to find talking to you more of a chore than anything. If you know how great you are, without being arrogant, that kind of confidence will make him work harder to get your attention. Confidence is a very sexy trait.
4. Don’t get annoyed
If the guy you’re playing hard to get with doesn’t take the bait, don’t get mad. You aren’t trying to get guys to beg for you on hands and knees. If you get annoyed at him that he’s not missing you enough or giving you enough attention after all you’ve done to play hard-to-get, you’ve given yourself away. You don’t want to be obvious in playing hard to get. A woman who is naturally hard to get doesn’t get annoyed when men don’t react in a certain way.
Playing hard-to-get is a game, but it shouldn’t consume all of your time. If you’re going to play hard-to-get, really be hard-to-get. Be busy for an hour or two before you open his text. Don’t answer the phone every single time he calls. Remember not to play hard-to-get all the time. You also want to be approachable. It’s a delicate balance when you’re playing hard-to-get.
4 Signs He’s Not the Right Man for You
If you’re dating, you’re most likely trying to find someone you really like who will make a good life partner. It’s easy to ignore little things that happen, but it’s not smart to ignore them. We all have our faults, but some faults are too big to let go. Here are a few sure signs he is not the right man for you.
1. He can’t accept the fact that you have a past
Every person has a past. If your boyfriend is upset about the fact that you’ve had other boyfriends, he might not be the right guy for you. The last thing you want is to feel guilty about the fact that you had a life before him. Your past shouldn’t be something that your boyfriend questions you about or uses against you. If he does, it’s time to kick him to the curb.
2. He’s selfish in bed
If the man you’re dating is selfish in bed, it’s something you need to deal with right away. He should be just as concerned about your pleasure as he is about his own. If you let him get away with being selfish, nothing will easily change.
3. He gets mad when you show emotion
It’s understood that men don’t like it when women cry. It makes them uncomfortable and they don’t know how to make women feel better. That’s nothing compared to certain men who actually get angry when a woman cries or gets upset. If your boyfriend gets mad at you for being anything other than happy, you are not dating the right man. We all have feelings and emotions that we need to freely express. If you stay with a man like this for too long, you may begin to hold your emotions in and that’s not good for you.
4. He’s vulgar and crude
Some people say that being vulgar in public is unacceptable, but it’s also unacceptable in private. If your boyfriend is rude and inappropriate with you in private, this is cause for concern, especially if you’ve expressed your concerns and he still won’t stop. If he can control himself out in public, he can do so when he’s with you in private as well. If he chooses to not control himself, you may want to cut your losses and get out of the relationship. He should want to be his best self around you.
Dating is the period in a relationship when you determine whether someone is worth your time or not. No one is perfect, but if someone acts in a way that isn’t making you happy, it’s a good idea to get out of the relationship.
7 Easy Ways to Meet a Potential Date
Nowadays nightclubs and bars are not the only ways to meet potential dates. There are many other places and ways to find your love. It may feel as if there is not at times, especially right after a break up, but it’s much easier to meet a new boyfriend than you think. Here are a few tips on how to meet a potential date.
1. Mutual friends
One of the best ways to meet your date is through mutual friends. It’s actually the easiest way to meet a new date or just friend, and it’s how my boyfriend and I met a few years ago. Feel free to ask your close friend if they know a man who is single and who also wants to find a date. Who knows, maybe you will meet the love of your life. Just don’t forget to say your friend ‘Thank you.’
2. Restaurant
When you’re at a restaurant you can also meet a potential date. Even if you are out with your coworkers or girlfriends, don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation with a nice guy you like. It’s okay to take the initiative once in a while. It could lead to some amazing date potential.
3. Grocery store
Ladies, you read it correctly. The grocery store is a perfect place to meet your potential date. My best friend met her husband in the grocery store and they are so happy together now. Yes, it can be difficult to do, but it can happen. So, when you go grocery shopping, keep your eyes open because you never know if you’re going to see a perfect man. If you do, feel free to start a conversation with him.
4. School
Whether you’re in college or high school, it’s a wonderful place to meet your date. He doesn’t have to be a guy who is in your class or grade. It can be a guy you catch the eye of during lunch or just pass in the hall. If you like that guy, approach him. Don’t think that making the first move is bad for girls. Though don’t ask him out the moment you start a conversation. Just let him know you like him.
5. Work
Sure, dating someone in the workplace is not easy and it can have some complications, but it’s possible if you love each other. Just make sure the man you’re interested in is not your boss, because your relationship might not work out and you could even lose your job. Lots of people meet their partners at work since they spend most of their time at work.
6. Online
I don’t like to recommend people to meet their dates online, but it’s also a good way to try. Today a lot of people are meeting online. The Internet is a huge world of possibilities and you can easily meet your potential date online. Just be careful when you look for your dates and when you meet one of them.
7. Shopping
Finally, you can meet your potential date while shopping. No matter where you shop, look around the stores and sections where men are most likely to be. One of the best things about meeting a man when shopping is that you know that he doesn’t mind to shop and shopping together will never be a problem between both of you.
It can be difficult to meet a new guy, especially after a painful breakup, but it’s possible if you really want it. If you already have a boyfriend, where did you meet him? Tell us your love story